woah.... I have over 200, I'll count and then post another reply.
I have 2 on my face, one under my nose and one next to my lip where I tried sewing my mouth shut once when I was upset. I have over 200 around my entire body though, and my girlfriend doesnt mind. I live with them pretty similar to many people, although for some its very painful to have physical contact or scratching. I dont mind them, they could be softer but eh its how it is. I do think about them a lot because I have to make sure I dont bump my arms into anything that will hurt them.
I have over 200 and im 14! scars are nothing to be ashamed of! (this is for your daughter) I personally inflicted a few, so I guess some dont count but I still have a lot and count every few weeks/ every other month
I have over 190